Kirethi's Blog

Be you.

Society is a little biast with the way things have been set up, you are out there thinking ‘why is she questioning the process?’

Am a strong believer of structure it is just how my brain works but there are somethings i fail to really understand.

Traditionally a man is supposed to be strong and to never let other people see their weaknesses.

Women on the other hand, we will talk to anything and anyone who gives us a listening ear or prolly pretends to listen.

Lets take a walk on any street you want, how many old men can you count out there, very few i believe.

There has been these uproar that boychild is neglected and all but how will people know yoy are suffering if all you do is play down your struggles.

Speak out, let them say ‘uko na umama’ but depression is of your radar.

Refuse to be boxed in that old cocoon of thought that a man should be like this or that curve you own nìche and i guarantee you will be satisfied

Friendzone.

There are a lot of things that could happen to a persons life that are nasty and crude but being zoned probably tops it.

That moment when people do not let you speak on an issue because you are from a particular tribe so they think they know you.

It is even more sad when the person you intend to court already classifies you as friend material.

We all know that the possibility of coming from friendzone to bae zone is almost non existant.

Then even thinking that you are risking losing a very close friend if the both of you try to date and it does not work out.

Venting mate.

There is no stronger bond lady friends than when they share a common ‘enenemy’ hydrogen bond has nothing on that if my chemistry is not wrong.

In this life you can not always like everyone and if you do like everyone that is a lie yoy are living right there.

There are these people who will just breath and you are upset their very existence just upsets you.

These reaction is not necessary for people who have done you wrong, sometimes there is this vibe around a person you just do not like.

For ladies if these dislike is shared by another person it is a heavenly thing, especially the girl talk when your mutual enemy faila at something nothing beats that feeling.

Ladies love to be listened too when they vent and when the person listening also shares their opinion that right there is gold.

You can never be too cautious.

Lets be clear ladies do not have ‘trust issue’ they have the ‘i have seen these pattern before so am bailing out before things go south’ syndrome.

Being in a relationship with a person who does not take time to really know yoy could leave a scar.

Some men out there also abuse the ladies they are with; physically, verbally and emotionally and it often does a number on the self esteem of this lady.

Am not making excuses for people out there, that is beside my point, am just trying to paint a picture of why they are so cautious.

Coming out of such failed relationship it is common knowledge that the lady will be alittle out of the dating game.

So when she opens up to you and then you start exhibiting the same behaviour of her last partner that is a red sign for her to run for the hills before history repeats itself.

Ladies will agree with me when i say that a man that knows what he is supposed to do and actually does it is a definite ‘heart on’.

Having to actually tell a man how you want to be treated gets old pretty first, my brothers out there treat that gem the right way, because regret is such a sore bitch do not let her catch up with you.

Sharing is caring

Life is not about the big things in life or the endless zeros in your bank all that is vanity and it fades.

The impact you leave on peoples lives though is the real deal, these acts as simple as they may seem are held dear by people.

The little act of kindness that you show to people may seem so insignificant but it could mean the world to another person.

When you are in the position to help people do it while heartedly because nothing is constant in these life you do not know about tommorrow.

They say sharing is caring, so true, and you do not have to wait till you have millions that little you have could change a life.

A giving hand is the one that receives and life experiences always prove this particular point.

Have a lovely day and remember to be kind to those around you regardless if they are friends or not.