Kirethi's Blog

‘Trapped’

When a person feels old enough to indulge is the physical part of the relationship they should be ready for any eventuality.

Most of the men, not to be sexist but still, are so ready and willing to jump bones on a lady but bail when a baby is in the picture.

Contraceptives fail it is scientifically proven and pulling out is an overused scam we all know.

There are many men who blame the lady for trapping them, how did she when you are old enough to know the possible result for such activities.

If you are not ready for daddy duties just abstain it is the only way to ensure that you are not ‘trapped’ as most try to make it seem.

If abstaining is such a hard task ensure you are responsible enough to take care of the children that you have out there.

Ethics

Economy is what motivates most people to leave their very warm beds and out there to the chilly cold world.

These places where we take to look for money in order to meet your every day needs.

There are other people who are there in these places of work and not every one has your best interest at heart.

You should ensure that all information you have been given access to by the organization is kept confidential to avoid vital information gets to the competition.

Always ensure that your computer has a password that people can not be able to hack to keep the prying hands away.

Less talk will always ensure that you do not get into unsolicited arguments with people.

The test.

What would you do if someone who you were starting out a relationship with told you to go for a HIV test?

Am sure most would feel offended: like why would your spouse not trust you to the point of taking you to the test.

It is a touchy topic that most people ignore but it is vital thing that should actually be known before you move the relationship to the physical stage.

In this world where the ARV drugs are given by the government for free it will be hard to know who has the virus by their appearance.

Within the 90 days rule ensure that you and the potential spouse go to the voluntary counselling test center, not because you do not trust the person you are with, you can never be too careful

Talk it out.

The stability of a house and the number of stories it can hold is determined by the type of foundation they have.

Same as a good marriage is determined with how successful the dating seaso was the two people.

In the dating period there are things that must and should be talked about to ensure that the marriage will run smoothly.

Most importantly is how many children you both want yo have when you get married it ensures that you are both well planned when they begin being born.

Another thing is the finances how the money you both earn will be used and how you will invest it.

Talking in advance ensures that both the spouses know what has to be done hence are working towarda the same goal.

New partner

Once you have failed at something one becames even more cautious you can imagine how a single parent is more careful going into something new.

The fact that they still carry scars from the past relationship is serious but the most important is the fact that there are more things that hold them back.

There are children involved because you do not want to introduce them to just any one because some people are just not serious.

There are also cases of baby mamas and baby daddies because the other parent has been known to be a critical part of the new relationship.

Most people who have children have been reported to having hidden the fact that they have children at the initial stages of the relationship.

Be open about the fact that you are a parent as early as possible and also the situation that lead to this situation to avoid having to explain things in the future.

Another thing do not introduce your kids to everyone you date unless the relationship is serious because they are easily confused.